Just remember that he is as confused and scared as you are. Just because he SAYS something doesn't make it true. Take this time and focus on you and let him work on his own issues. Let him see the best you you can be and he won't have a choice but to stay.
Hello Lynn,
Like Cadet wrote: "Sorry you are here but you will meet some wonderful people here and get some great advice."
I really agree with Matt's post that I quoted above. Also, Winhamn wrote: "Patience is the biggest thing." He is right on with that. I'm sure your H will test your patience but it's important to follow Winhamn's advice.
I wish you well. You can do this!
Your new friend,
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
