Great advice Fogg. Pretty much where I'm at. My son and I gave her an awesome day today. Picnic, some of her favorite things, handmade cards. My S gave her s foot massage and a "spa" day the best a 9 year old can. She seemed to enjoy the attention. She deserves it. Knowing very well none of this will bring her back, just wanted to give her a great day as she has to work tomm on Mother's Day. Gotta keep working on me, pouring into my son and moving forward.
SITCH Years of infidelity by me/H, working on perm change, DEC 2014 ILYBNILWY JAN 2105 OM JAN 2015 W says I plan to move out and file for D April 1, 2015 Dbing April 2015 H-39, W-37, M 18yrs, S-9