Trying to Follow DB & DR (3)

[Miman2]

I guess I was trying to keep it brief. Yes it was very tense from the moment I pulled up. I'll try to stitch it back together. Red is new and blue and black are stitched from the other posts.

When I pulled up She was just getting into the OM's car. She saw me and then I heard her telling the OM to get in the car repeatedly.I asked to talk about the cats. She didn't want to talk. She asked me to leave. They started to get into the OM's car. I ran to the drivers side (his side) and elbowed the door back open and talked across him the entire time. I stood in front of the open door, arms crossed and didn't move from that position until I left. He didn't say a word, just stared at his feet the entire time as he sat in the drivers seat.I told her I would leave but I would like to know why she filed when just the week before she said she stated that I was still her husband, that she hadn't filed. She said she didn't love me anymore, she didn't want to work things out and that she had always intended on filing she just didn't have the money for it. Now with her second job she could afford it.I asked about her ring at some point. She asked if I wanted it back, I said yeah if she wasn't going to wear it. She said she'd mail it back.

I asked what happened to our lunch. If I was supposed to call her, she said she got busy with work. I asked if she still wanted to do lunch. She said if there was a third person there, that with me showing up at her apt she was afraid to have lunch alone with me.
I asked about the party she went to. He mentioned the theme and that the girls wanted to go to that theme. I didn't even acknowledge him. I told her how our friend was disappointed that she pretended not to see him, she claimed she waved and the OM mentioned "it was 1am!" as if that was too late to be talking to anyone at a party, again I ignored him. A phone went off and she pulled out some phone I've never seen before. I asked if that her new phone and she said yes. I asked if she was still paying on the joint car insurance, she said yes and that I could cancel her other phone anytime I wanted. With her phone in hand she asked me to leave before she called the cops on me and I did.



I did everything on my to do list before I went over thinking she'd be long gone by the time I drove by. Yeah it didn't go well, but it was more of the the venom and hatred in her voice and attitude that just screams to me she's not willing to accept anything other than a divorce with no looking back.

I don't want to our M to end, but I'm in love with someone who doesn't love me, doesn't want to love me and wants nothing to do with me.