A year? No, I can't do that and I won't. That is not fair to me or my daughter.
I'll admit, when I first read this I thought to myself "neither is D". But then I reread your recap below. This hasn't been 3.5 months. This has been a long term issue.
Are you two in the same house right now?
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15