Strictly business. Yes, I know... sigh. But I wouldn't to do business with someone I hate. And at the moment I do hate her so it's hard to take the emotion out. In fact if it was business I'd respond in a friendly manner with a view to working on a an agreeable outcome for both of us. I'll have to give it a few days before I can muster up a reply that doesn't stick in my craw.
I do want to sell. But I don't want her to do it either. I was the one who had to sort anything out with the house or tenants as she didn't want anything to do with it. Now she's lost her job, she's got more time and the tenants giving notice means we have to get a move on. I guess it makes more sense now but it still rankles.
Not knowing a thing about this, I don't know how I can protect myself. We always planned to port the mortgage and buy somewhere else but that's out of the window now. I wonder if you can split and port. And how long you can wait before buying again.
I may try and rearrange my weekends so I can fit in being nearby on my birthday and S12's but pick the boys up and take them out rather than stay. I'll think about that.
And yes, Need to firm up some plans for the summer holidays.
Thanks Toots for your support.
Last edited by Old Dog; 05/09/1511:32 PM.
M: 57 / EW: 52 T: 21, M: 8 S: 18, S: 15 Bomb: 1 Jun 14 EA Aug 2014 I think PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner