Journaling: STBX texted me last night and asked how the sleep over with D4 was going. I didn't respond. She then called at 11pm when we were sleeping and I let it ring.
STBX called twice today. First, she called this morning after her work shift. We talked exclusively about the kids. Nothing to write home about.
Then, I had a chock full day with the kiddos. We met up with some friends for a hike, went to a pet adoption event, played around on the neighborhood tennis court, and walked to get ice cream. We all had a great time and I did well to keep my mind off STBX.
I usually post a pic or two on Instagram of the kids and I when we hang out. Maybe doing so makes it too easy for STBX to keep tabs on me/us I decided not to today. Around 5pm, when STBX might wake up, she likes two Instagram pictures that I took last weekend. Seems like she was just scrolling through my pics to see what I was up to. LOL.
Then, STBX just called as she was driving to work. I again kept the conversation about the kids. When I thought she might ask about what we did today, I told STBX that D4 wanted to talk with her. A few moments later, she asked about Mother's Day. I told her that the kids wanted her to come over in the morning after her work shift. STBX then asks if I want her to come over too. I pause and reply with a noncommittal, "Sure." I could tell that she wasn't convinced.
Anyway, I wished her a good night. STBX then thanked me for having her over in the morning.
Nothing too major planned for Mother's Day. D4 painted a coffee mug for her. Kids picked out and signed a card for her. D4 and I will make an light breakfast in the morning for her. That's it.
"So take me to the airport and put me on a plane. I got no expectations to pass through here again." -the Stones
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15