We were going to the beach with our bible study group after church and that morning while on a run, I had hurt my leg. I could barely walk. I made it through church and to the beach. I was in pain. It started raining so everyone decided to go bowling instead. At that point, all I wanted to do was go home and lay down, but I told him to go have fun. H took me home, said he would be home in a few hours and would bring home dinner. After a few hours I texted him to see when he was coming home and he said he was leaving. Another hour passed and he still wasn’t home. I texted again and he had not left and was now playing darts. When he got home, I lost it. This was not the first time that I was pushed down his list of priorities and I had let it pile up inside and just had enough. We got in a huge fight and I said I wasn’t sure if we had made the right decision getting married.

I'm not saying he's rewriting history and I know I never should have said that. I know that he was hurt by my saying that. And two months later he cheated on me. But, sometimes people fight. It doesn't mean that you should cheat or end your marriage over it.


Me:36 H: 29
T: 4 years
M: 2 years
No kids
In-house sep 10/4/14
H moved out 1/2/15
Talk of D 4/9/15

"She's standing on a line between giving up and seeing how much more she can take" John Mayer