Letting Go Part III

[Bob723]

I used to fear being overwhelmed now I fear the stillness.

I will have to read up on this and talk to my friends about it. It just feels like there is no point - does anyone else feel that way?

Am I all alone out here?

Hello Heavy,

First of all, thank you so much for posting on my thread. You brought a huge smile to my face when I needed it most!

I feel we all have those feelings from time to time. So, no, you are not alone Heavy. I'm at that point now myself.

As Fogg mentioned, "Your not driving her away, shes driving away." And why is that? I think it's because she needs time to heal herself.

At times, I feel skeptical about the non-pursuit approach, but we have to trust the process. Yes, it's counter-intuitive but I think it's very important to stick to it. Pursuing simply gives the spouse who wants out another reason to think, "See, this is why I can't live with S any more."

So, I know it will be hard, but try to have a Happy Mother's Day.

I will say a prayer dedicated just to you today.

(((HeavyD)))