Been following the adventure that is your situation and I really have to applaud your efforts to date.
Had you not taken this route, you STBX would have kept you dangling for months on end.
You have taken control of your own situation.
In my opinion, if this ends in a D, it would have ended the same way had you not done this but it would have taken alot longer and far more pain on your end.
Her actions seem to be all reactionary.
Keep posting. Great work and good on you.
Thanks TenBook, I appreciate the kind words and encouragement. It means a lot!
I think you might be right that STBX's A was an exit A. Based on some of our discussions, she had been thinking about a D for months, if not years.
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
