Had talk with W about Big D. She filed for joint custody. I told her I want to try and be as civil as possible in the whole D, told her I have no plans of turning into an ass over this, even though she keeps testing me. As I'm saying this she is crying. Told her I don't want to take kids away from her, but how does she think she can take care of kids with the hours she works. She says she never thought about it. How can someone file and make such a big decision without thinking about everything? I told her to think of a plan on how she could possibly take care of kids if we did joint, and I would be willing to sit and discuss. She kept crying, I got up and walked away. Hopefully she can come up with an idea over the weekend.
As for mothers day, heading to church with my mother. Afterward plan to spend day with friends. W and kids can do what they want. I'll tell W to tell kids I had to work so there not wondering why dads not at home making breakfast like normal on Sunday. It's her day not mine.
