Zues, I have to say your story here is of the most encouraging I've seen. There was a time when I thought for sure you were a lost cause, had given up DBing, thought you'd just drift off into the bitterness sunset. But here you are, an amazing man, an amazing dad, handing out good advice and encouragement to others. It's looking a lot like your M isn't going to work out, as so many don't, but wow, look at who you've become. Your STBX is a fool. Good for you.