WAW Filed for Divorce Next Day Pt. 4 (Bob)

[Bob723]

Hello all my cyber-friends.

I posted this in mahhhty's thread, and thought for those of you following my sitch you could benefit from it, too:

Now, this my seem a little odd at first, but I have been doing this for about 1 week and it seems to be helping me. It's one of those "daily affirmations" that you say outloud to yourself.

Here it is:
In the infinity of life where I am, all is perfect whole and complete. I now choose calmly and objectively to see my old patterns and I am willing to make changes. I choose to have fun doing this. I choose to react is though I have found a treasure when I discover something else to release. I see in feel myself changing moment by moment. Thoughts no longer have any power over me. I am the power in the world. I choose to be free. All is well in my world.

Bob

[Defacto]

Here it is:
In the infinity of life where I am, all is perfect whole and complete. I now choose calmly and objectively to see my old patterns and I am willing to make changes. I choose to have fun doing this. I choose to react is though I have found a treasure when I discover something else to release. I see in feel myself changing moment by moment. Thoughts no longer have any power over me. I am the power in the world. I choose to be free. All is well in my world.[/color]

Bob

This is great! I really needed this. Thanks for sharing Bob!

[Elly4]

This is great, Bob! I printed it!

[Bob723]

This is great! I really needed this. Thanks for sharing Bob!

Hello Defacto,

I'm so happy it helps! I love sharing new things I find out there that I think could help our sitches.

Thanks for checking in! I have to catch up on your sitch soon.

I wish you well.

Bob

[Bob723]

This is great, Bob! I printed it!

I hope it helps, Eirinn!

(((Hugs)))

Bob

[Bob723]

All:

I don't know how many of you receive Michele's occassional e-mail but she reminded me of one of my favorite quotes, It was at the very end of yesterday's e-mail.

William Shakespeare once wrote, "No legacy is so rich as honesty."

Food for thought.

Bob

[Bob723]

Hello my friends,

I did a GAL activity tonight - a Meetup Group at an Irish Piub - and I am so depressed.

I danced with sone lovely women, made a few new friends, but seeing couples having fun together made me miss my soulmate so much.

I am far from perfect, but I'll never understand why my W walked out on me without even giving counseling a chance.

I CANNOT

[Bob723]

Oops, hit submit before I finished...

I CANNOT do this anymore.

Me

[Sotto]

Hey Bob - it's morning here. And can I say - well done on going to the Meetup! I have done one or two things and felt low afterwards - but the thing is you pushed yourself and you did it, so that's pat on the back time.

I know what you mean about couples, I find it painful to watch people sometimes. It is hard that they are in a place where they are all tender with each other and we aren't. But life is cyclical and who knows in a few years time, we and they may have switched places again.

So, please don't be despondent....tell yourself how well you did to get out there to a Meetup, get a good night's sleep - and tomorrow's another day.

Take care (((Bob)))

[Cadet]

I CANNOT do this anymore.

Me

What can't you do anymore?

There is a lot of life left to live.

Your wife left because she is hurting, like a wounded animal, she has gone off to try to heal herself.