Zues, you and I have had similar views on marriage and vows. That is a big part of it. The biggest is watching my 2 older boys and what they deal with in life. You can see the hurt in them from their mom's divorce from their dad. But mostly I see how their dad abandoned them and how it has affected them. I tried my best to fill that role, but I am still just the step dad. I have raised them pretty much. I would never abandon my kids. I also know first hand how divorce affects kids. Everyday, I pray for God's strength to help me through another day and help me be the best man I can be.
I am trying to set up meetings with attorneys so I can protect my rights when the time comes, but I am not having much luck. I am wondering of it is a sign that no one calls me back to set up a appointment? Maybe a sign that it is not time and someone upstairs has another plan in mind? Don't know! But I am still working on getting the information I need.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
