I don't know what to say Joe. You've been on the road as long as I have and are still in the house. I can't imagine how tough that's been.

Then again, my STBX and I didn't speak for 3 of the last 5 years we were living together, so I guess I can kind of imagine it. The only real difference is no one had actively declared the end.

Very impressed with how you're handling this, how you're taking care of yourself without walking away. It takes a strong spirit to do what you're doing.

Last edited by Zues126; 05/09/15 04:49 AM.

Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15