Saturday is youngest S birthday. We will be going to town for the day. He wants a new bike. Sunday, I am hoping weather is nicer so we can get outside. I will grab a card so kids can give it to their mom for mothers day. I used to buy her something nice and do dinner and things in the past to make her feel special on Mother's day. Now that I am detaching from all this, I may barbecue. I am going to really be working on me this weekend. W is being pretty cold to me today. I struggle with the disrespect.
My tolerance for these junior high games is something I am also struggling with. But I feel it is good for me. I practice concentrating on myself when I start getting those irritated feelings. I STFU and start to think about how to best deal with the situation. I stop myself and wonder if it really matters all that much.
Other issues to deal with are older S and his party habits. I think I am handling everything ok. All these things are out of my control. I have been a little lax lately on working on my own issues. I will concentrate on these things. WW and older S are both old enough to make their own choices.
Last edited by Joe46; 05/09/1504:49 AM.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
