I don't think I'm mindreading too much here because though we're not speaking, she made a point of telling the kids (in front of me) how she's gotta run to get more wood for the new firepit in the back. I chuckle about this 'talking to me through the kids' she's done sometimes. My DB coach says that she feels insufficient so tries to make comments that will make me feel that way, trying to make me feel like I'm missing out because she likely feels she's missing out on the family time I'm spending with the children this weekend. My DB coach gave me some sage wisdom about this type of exchange but I'm not reposting it, it's in my old threads.
Zues, my W does this exact same thing. Only difference is her plans change every few days! I am glad your DB couch put it that way. I have felt like that is why my W talks about her plans through the kids. I hear alot of mom said we are going to do this and that. Enjoy your weekend with your kids.
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"
