Trying to Follow DB & DR (3)

[Miman2]

She seems to have become less inclined to want to reconcile over time. Initially it seemed like a possibility, then a couple of weeks ago it was a distant maybe, and now it seems impossible for her to want to reconcile.

I think the more aggressive L would get the job done and he mentioned that I wouldn't even really need to be part of the process. I could try to draw things out but from the way she acted there doesn't seem to be much of a point to that. At this point it seems to me that the only way things could be saved would be for us to go several months if not years without interacting with each other. At that point we'll more than likely be in different states and time zones. So it might just be better to move on.

As for the OM. When I pulled up I heard her telling the OM to get in the car repeatedly. I ran to the drivers side (his side) and elbowed the door back open and talked across him the entire time. He didn't say a word, just stared at his feet the entire time as he sat in the drivers seat. The only time he said something is when I asked about the party she went to. He mentioned the theme and that the girls wanted to go to that theme. I didn't even acknowledge him. I told her how our friend was disappointed that she pretended not to see him, she claimed she waved and the OM mentioned "it was 1am!" as if that was too late to be talking to anyone at a party, again I ignored him.

I shouldn't have confronted her, I should have just drove by once I saw them. I thought she was going to be long gone by the time I went by.