7 weeks in feels like a lifetime.

[Lynn80]

Greetings
I am only two months in to hearing it is over. This week I learned of his emotional affair. Hurting here! We are in counseling and what keeps coming up is that he loves me and cares for me but he always wants to be happy and he just in at sure we can be happy together.

He is afraid I can't forgive him for his bad choices. Afraid I can't let the anger go (which hasn't surfaced until the affair). It seems he is not willing to work on the marriage because he is so hurt and scared. I think we are a great candidate to be BUSTED! He wants to work on becoming friends for my 4yo son. We go to counseling weekly and after counseling we both agree we feel better and have a wonderfully pleasant night.

This is where I need help. I can so quickly spiral in to fear that he is talking to HER. Fear that I am wasting my time. Fear that he will still walk away. I need you tips and support on how you stay positive.

One in, one out and a 4yo Son in the mix.
Living together in the same house with no alone time to get through the pain.