There are a lot of people that have saved their marriages.
Ladybug is one person who posted a lot when I started - she still posts updates on the piecing thread.
She left her stbx alone and went about her life. She got her own hobbies and she worked on herself. After 2 or 3 years he came home. It was only when she was ready to be without him forever that he came back.
There are many other people that have reconciled like 25 and other whose names are not coming to me.
Don't give up.
Just when the catapiller thought the world was over he becomes a butterfly.
Stay strong. Head to the light
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13