Trying to Follow DB & DR (3)

[MrBond]

"I'm starting to think of going for the more aggressive one. "

Why? Do you feel like you want to stick it to her now?

"I got my paperwork. Her new address was on it. I went to see where she lived. She was just getting into the OM's car. I asked to talk about the cats."

So you confronted her in front of the OM? What did he do?

"She didn't want to talk. She asked me to leave. I told her I would but I would like to know why she filed when just the week before she said she hadn't".

Hadn't doesn't mean wouldn't.

"I asked what happened to our lunch. If I was supposed to call her, she said she got busy with work. I asked if she still wanted to do lunch. She said if there was a third person there, that with me showing up at her apt she was afraid to have lunch alone with me."

I know it's hard not to, but you shouldn't have confronted her there.

"She asked me to leave and I did.
Stick a fork in it... I think it's done."

Why? You can go ahead and criticize and make some other smart alec remark towards me, but I can tell you that your M can still be saved. That's from experience.