Sorry to hear that stbxh is being, what boils down to, juvinile. It sounds as if he is just trying to get a rise out of you or punish you for all of your 'transgressions'. I wish for your sake this was over.
Since he is dragging this out for whateve his reason (hell, he may not even know)...Ask yourself, 'what would I do tonight if he had actually signed those papers?' Whatever your answer...that is EXACTLY what I would do....whatever the 'EFF you want to do.
Zel, what kind of help are you getting IRL? Given the history of physical violence, I get a bit concerned for you when I read how he's trying to control you and those around you. Juvenile is one way to describe it, but creepy and manipulative is another (and I'm not one to label other people's partners). Just take care of yourself, ok?
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014
Hell yes. I dropped the DR policy of keeping details to myself after I realized what a creep he was and we would not be back together. Plus it helps to buffer against his victim cries and acts.
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on
I'm good, TLEE. Joined a D support group at a mega church (I've yet to tell them I'm an agnostic heathen) and that is a help. Lots of GAL, getting on with my life. H is still not getting his things or signing.
Why does a hostile spouse drag things out when there is no argument over the tangibles, no kids and no desire to work things out?
Sorry I've droped off board - trying to put more energy into the practical urgencies of life lately and am a bit too cynical to contribute much of anything good
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on
