Part of me wants to be here initially, to show off the new me.....new hairstyle, contacts, and 30 lbs lighter.....down a whole size in clothes. But I don't know if that makes me a bad person, and I don't want to be a bad person, that's not who I am. I thought I might just make the initial greeting, then excuse myself, saying I have somewhere to be, and maybe make arrangements with a girl friend to meet for a coffee or something.


M: 47 / H: 52
No children.
Own a business together.
Told me he wanted a divorce: 3/31
Moved out: 4/7
Confirmed OW: 4/16
Took divorce off the table: 4/24