mahhhty, thank you for the book suggestion, I just ordered it! I've been reading a whole bunch of books, and it's nice to get referrals for ones with helpful info in them.
M: 47 / H: 52 No children. Own a business together. Told me he wanted a divorce: 3/31 Moved out: 4/7 Confirmed OW: 4/16 Took divorce off the table: 4/24