Hi Dawgy, from your signature, are you still not quite sure if OM is in the picture somewhere? It strikes me that, even if the A has ended it is still relatively recent, and it does take time (and DBing) for re-attraction to happen again.
Have you read Onguard's thread in infidelity? He and his W are piecing now, but it was a while after her A ended before she began to show proper interest in the M again.
When your W is distant, and you feel sad and angry, are you managing to maintain a PMA around your W? Are you also managing to get out and GAL?
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
