Yes, that is what I am thinking to do tomorrow when he comes to the house around 12:30pm - just disappear.
He can pick up the stuff he left at the house and just leave. I think it is my last poker move... run away from him, don't have any contact unless it is about the kids or finances.
I need to remind myself to take control over my life and my feelings. Use this time to learn and grow as a person.
I hope I can, because this is a much bigger pain then I anticipated.