Don't say anything at all. If you feel you need to, then be positive.

When I divorced my first husband the first thing he went out and bought was a motorcycle. Then he started to go out to bike night and bars. Yes, it bothered me but I never let it show.


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)