Well my three weeks straight with the kids comes to an end after Tuesday. It's been so much fun! The kids were awesome, they did mention once or twice that they missed their mom but I was able to quickly get their minds off of it. I've gotten to know my kids better than I have ever known them in this time. My oldest looks to constantly seek my apoval and praise in every aspect of life. My daughter needs help. She lacts the self confidence to make new friends and keep old ones. I defiantly need to seek some help for her. She is such an introvert. Her weight is really starting to worry me along with other things. My youngest wants to follow in his big brothers foot steps to a tee. Anything he can do with either of us he is just so happy to do. I really do have the best group of kids in the world!
On the oldest, we have been receiving some really great news towards his baseball career(if you call it that at 13 years old). He has been asked to maltipul age groups because of his catching skills. We are only a couple of weeks into summer ball and he has been asked to join a couple allstar teams from around the area. The varsity coach sat me down and is going to be watching how he progress through out the summer season during games and how he handle calling some of the tougher teams. If all goes like he wants he would like him to be their starting catcher next year(he is only in 8th grade). For a town that is driven by its baseball this is huge news. If any of you are baseball fans you know what I mean. In our home town we have a amateur baseball team and in the stands it's not to uncommon to see a couple of major league vets sitting with us and having a couple beers. So I'm very very excited to see where this all goes for him! He is taking it in like a true pro and dad is just sitting back and watching. So fun to watch!
On the stbxw, she stopped over yesterday to see the kids for a little bit. I try not to ask any questions anymore. But with the first court date in a month and my lawyer asking me what's going on. I had to bring it up. We talked a little bit about it that there is nothing to fight over anymore. The kids are going to be 50-50 on every thing. I agreed to pay child support until she finished school and started her career. Not going to go through the court on that stuff. Just sit down and fill out the paperwork and be done. She tried to get reactions out of me. First it was she is just flipping out about the whole divorce and it's driving her nuts(not one word from me). Then I told her that if she was still going to move that close we need to sit down with the kids and discuss boundaries. Like running back and forth to grab stuff and or wanting to stay at one place when they get mad at the other parent. And how I do not want the kids having free run of my place incase I have company over or what ever. She agreed, but then started on how she still doesn't know if that's a complete go. She tried to go into it all but since I didn't respond or really didn't give a hoot. She stopped and said yah that's my messed up life and you don't care anymore.
So she is still going around and around with OM what's new. I just want the divorce to go as smooth as possible and not fight about anything. Let her life be her messed up life. Once the divorce is final then I can file bankrucy and get my finicals inorder and start my life over(money wise).
Every thing is absoluty going great lately!
I hope all the great MOMs on this board have a fantasic Mother's Day. You all deserve it much more then you will every know it.
Thanks 3kids
M36/W30 S13,D10,S6 Married 4.5 together 12 Bomb 1/14 EA/PA OM 1/14 still going Served 2/14/14 Separated 3/14 D paused 6/14 6/15 divorced
