Glad to hear from you. You are a good person. Look how you have fought for your M and you have given me so definite good advice.
You are independent, strong person. I get the sad about H part, but what we all most realize is the H we married is gone, they are treating us badly and we don't deserve it!
Try to think about the good things, independent, you have a job that will let you work extra hours, someday your H will regret what he did, you have your children and your health now.
Keep detaching and GAL (which is very hard for me) but if you are like me you feel better when you do.
