Originally Posted By: BEClem
Hopeful: Two questions.

1. What does MSA stand for.

2. Do you think I should be worried about her and her friend?
Do you think it is simply a friendship and just doesn't want
me asking about it anymore / hence the block?


#1 she Answered

#2 ... Here is the thing, what can you control here? She very well might have dude in the friend-zone. Maybe its leaning towards a A, maybe not. The A .. yeah nothing stings more, believe me.... been there, done that, have the shirt. Regardless you are not in a spot to tell her what she can and can not do, she has in a sense fired you as her H at this point ... telling her who she can talk to will only make the canyon wider.

My advice .. keep doing what you are doing, become the better choice, the best choice, keep up with the changes, the 180's, PMA and the GAL, this will flip the table and instead of you wondering what she is doing and thinking, she hopefully will wonder what you are doing and thinking .. this takes time, like that WAW post I posted, she does not trust the changes are legit ... with good reason, you have to stay the course and avoid any landmines ... FB friends in this case.

I do think FB is nothing but evil .... makes things to easy for OP to contact a WAS when they are on the fence ... but again .. out of our control, if we had put this effort and energy in earlier .. who knows if we would have landed here right>?


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