Zephyr, reading over your sitch again, you have done such amazing work and that you know it is still a journey is terrific. You are well on your way to being the person she would be crazy to leave!
Hello Z,
I totally agree with Eirinn! Keep working on what you can control - changing yourself. You are doing a good job.
I wish you well.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15