Zephyr, reading over your sitch again, you have done such amazing work and that you know it is still a journey is terrific. You are well on your way to being the person she would be crazy to leave!
M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out