^^

Forgot to add. So the MC thing which has been discussed here, I have not located a MC who seems to be a proper fit, AND have openings for our schedule. My gut/faith tells me this is not by accident. W and I touched on MC last night, we talked a bit and I had told her that I agreed we needed it, but as I had shared before was frustrated that "All the good ones seem to be taken" so the search continues. She brought up the Retrouvaille and I said that I felt it really could not hurt but we have S to figure out where he could stay ... again another M issue that we really need to figure out .... that spun into a convo about making friends, and actually working on those new relationships... being more social ...something we both want.

So this morning she brought up her old HS friend who she has bonded with over the MLC crisis, she knows all .. she suggested that she could possibly watch S, but was concerned S would not like is as she has 2 girls ... I told her we have to think big picture here, and its only a couple days .. I think if S knew we were going away to work out things, he would atleast have an understanding about it .. not like we abandoned him to go party it up in Cancun ... hey .. on second thought ...lol.

So ^^^ surprised me ... again .. her showing effort and thought into this, looking toward the future ... the talk this morning was like I had my W back for a minute. Time will tell and we will see where this all goes


M: 48
W: 47
M16 T26-S8
BD Sept13