It made me feel like he was going to try and pick up girls and/or get attention. That is just my impression of bike night. Of course I could be wrong.
How do I handle this? Do I just not say anything, no reaction? I feel he is waiting for me to say something negative as he has said for awhile now that I control him.
If you read a bit here, few ... if any... therapists will buy into the MLC thing, just seems like its bigfoot or something, however you read enough here, see all the similarities, live it, you know it is real ... very real.
Again ... reading your sitch ... you are focused on H, totally get that that is why we all are here. BUT ... what are YOU doing? H is GALing ... bike night ... look at how that effects you, you need to GAL and do your own thing, not for a reaction out of H (That will follow) but more importantly to start rebuilding yourself, you need to grow and heal ... this is very important.
Get out and do something new, experience life, use this time you have to start making some changes about yourself .. the ones you always have thought about doing .. yeah .. that one .. go do it.... consider it homework.
Yep. H is GAL and I have our S all the time every night it makes it a little harder but I can incorporate him into my things. Don't get me wrong I wouldn't have it any other way.
Yeah I totally believe the MLC thing especially when I read the thread about the chapters of it. My H hit every single one.
I guess I should be glad that at least he shared with me what he is doing tonight. For the past few months he has never volunteered any information about what is was doing. That is why I wondered why he even bother to tell me what he was doing and that is why I thought he did to get my reaction. What do you think Caliguy?
