Originally Posted By: mahhhty


Exactly. I just wrote this on Lucy's thread and I think it applies somewhat to you...

"The Solo Partner is a great book that talks about the Pursuer/Distancer Dynamic. The only way to get to a Distancer is by turning the table. Make the Distancer become the Pursuer by the Pursuer becoming the Distancer."

Have a fun camping Defacto!

I've seen this book recommended so many times, I figured it was time to order it. Done. Thanks for the support and recommendation!


Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15