Exactly. I just wrote this on Lucy's thread and I think it applies somewhat to you...
"The Solo Partner is a great book that talks about the Pursuer/Distancer Dynamic. The only way to get to a Distancer is by turning the table. Make the Distancer become the Pursuer by the Pursuer becoming the Distancer."
Have a fun camping Defacto!
I've seen this book recommended so many times, I figured it was time to order it. Done. Thanks for the support and recommendation!
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15