Well Tenbook she has expressed remorse in several ways even in apology but she continues to be distant much of the time .And Turn good to hear you are still hanging tough .I have felt attraction for her when she is kind and like her old self , but when she is distant I feel very sad and angry at the same time . I really dont know what to do . Ive thought about just getting it over with and telling her to loeave , but it would take years to heal from it . I know i can stay with her but I believe she doesnt think it will work


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )