I've been away from the board for awhile - my life has been hectic, and my D21 got home from college last weekend for a 2 week visit.
My questions mirror those of Mozza's.
I do want to ask (aside from the content that it appears he wants this D and you don't), why 1) you feel this is a negative interaction; and 2) what minutia is in the details of why he feels it is not safe to talk with you?
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."