"In regards to STBXW finding her way back to the straight and narrow, I'm convinced that it's completely out of my hands now. All I can do is work on self betterment and be the best father possible. I have found comfort in the Lighthouse story during this period."
Exactly. I just wrote this on Lucy's thread and I think it applies somewhat to you...
"The Solo Partner is a great book that talks about the Pursuer/Distancer Dynamic. The only way to get to a Distancer is by turning the table. Make the Distancer become the Pursuer by the Pursuer becoming the Distancer."
Have a fun camping Defacto!
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015