She sent me the schedule last night. The email was fairly pleasant. I didn't respond. I sent the paperwork with the kids as promised.
This AM I dropped the kids off at Daycare (her parents) and her Dad were home (he has every other Friday off). This was the first time that we have really talked in months. He opened the door to a deeper conversation with a generic "How are you really doing?" I choose not to step into it fully, and responded with an upbeat "Good." And explained how much I have been paddling, working out, and working, without going into much detail. We proceeded to talk for about 35 minutes just him and I outside. Upon leaving we shook hands. Then he told me one last thing about him switching Country Clubs, from the Uppity Up Club to a more reasonably priced club, so he could golf with me and the other son in law more. I thought that was interesting. In his mind, I am still lumped into a group with the other son in law.
In general, I know I have made a lot of strides, but I have a long way to go. Detach! Detach! Detach!
Sooo... No kids and a weekend. What does Mahhhty do? He gets the [censored] out of Dodge. I'm heading to the mountains for 2.5 days of tranquility, serenity, sun and whitewater. I'll post again Sunday Night or Monday.
Last edited by mahhhty; 05/08/1502:37 PM.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015