Also giving you a bump. By the way, if you want to call in a vet, it's best that you write their username in full so that if they search for it (like I do for "mozza"), they will find your call. Right now, they would have to happen to come here and read your post to see it. So for good measure, Claire's call is for MrBond, 25yearsmlc, labug and Underdog! Note that some of them have not been active much lately.
Perhaps in the meantime, you could put here some more details so that the vets can immediately understand the details? Tell us more about this long email. Also, why do you think he feels he can't trust you at the moment? Things seemed to be doing good recently, with the positive problem-solving. Do you feel you have given him reasons to reach this conclusion lately? Anything you could improve, for your own sake? Also, are you upset that he's using euphemisms?
Regarding the D process, are there some things that you want and that might be difficult to obtain? Specific areas of disagreement between the two of you? Do you or will you have a lawyer now that he's retained one?
Help is on the way!
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