BW05, The more you react to the affair, the more he's going to go to the ow. Your reactions are the justification he is seeking to continue it. I know you want to just shake him until his head rolls on the floor, but it's better to go on w/your life. You have to protect yourself and your finances at this time. Watch your accounts.
Sit quietly and the answers to your questions will fall in your lap when you least expect them to.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
