When negotiators are this keen to force their views as right, my spider sense kicks in. There is something yet to know about H fins.
It's always a possibility, but I was the one that handled all the finances so I pretty much know where everything is. He's a part of the "entitlement" generation and I think he has in his mind what is fair (confirmed by his parents/brother) and thinks he deserves it. I also told him that if we couldn't agree and were going to have to get lawyers I would subpoena his text and fb messages to prove his affair. He probably doesn't want to go that route and have anyone think he is the bad guy.
Me:36 H: 29 T: 4 years M: 2 years No kids In-house sep 10/4/14 H moved out 1/2/15 Talk of D 4/9/15
"She's standing on a line between giving up and seeing how much more she can take" John Mayer