I have started to read all the posts from the beginning and one question is important for me. Yes, she bought new underwear at some point, yes she has lost weight, yes, she has told me that she fell in love with someone she has never met (and there would have been no contact since than). During the everyday life I can see no proof for an affair. S10 sleeps often in her room, she does not do a lot of texting during the day or has "mysterious" appointments or meetings and so on.
I know, that I have been a crappy husband for years, so I could understand if she would want to leave.
Is she a WAW because she might have been just fed up with the M or is she WW because she once (I do not know about this EA still going on) fell in love?
Me 46 W 45 S16 D14 S10 M 20 yrs in June T22 12/14 sleeping in different rooms 01/07/15 she said she wants a separation 02/26/15 I moved out