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I also agree with Maybell that it is time to solidly stand up for yourself and your values. I would love to see his stuff packed neatly in the garage with a note to say he can come and get it by X date - if not it's going to the dump..

And you can say to him - fine, go on your trip - but that's the implication H - up to you...

Find your inner power...