Surrendering this battle to win the war.

[Pyrite]

I spoke to lawyer at legal aid and here at least W is not allowed to put kids in a school without my consent. However, as with other stupid laws I have come across, the catch is that is not actually illegal either.

So, if she does take this action, then I have to petition courts and get judge to order reversal or whatever. As I anticipated, problem with this is that it could take 12 months to get through. SO it would be 1 year of ...."crap". only to then move kids out of one school and into another. they have been through enough already without this added trauma.

quiet day otherwise. the further away I get from BD, and less emotional, the less likely it seems that I will ever have R with W. 1. She is in love with OM. That has to end first, and in reality it may never. 2. It is beginning to sound ridiculous to me. its like choosing which horse you want to ride for the day and saying "yeah I want that one, he kicked me off last time". (I was meaning from W's perspective, but could be mine as well really). So could a new horse as well, but you never know that.