Well, why do you think Sandi's rules apply in your case? Forgive me if you've covered this and I missed it. I mean, you don't want to follow him around begging for his affection but do you feel like he's a good or a bad person to confide in and process things through with?
What are your goals? What are your best case scenarios? Be specific.
What do you mean guns blazing?
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15