"Perhaps I very petty, but it is the day before, the schedule is not finalized, and I am left to try and pick up the pieces. Which I don't mind doing, but we are D'ed. Therefore, I shouldn't have to. These should be business transactions and therefore I should have the courtesy of time and respect. If the roles were reversed I'd imagine she would have a huge problem dropping them off with my parents (as she hasn't spoken or reached out to them in... well... ever)."

Not going to say you're wrong for feeling the way you do. What I will say is there are a lot of "should" and "shouldn't" in there which leads me to believe you have some expectations and we all know with expectations come disappointment.

When you find that "detachment dust" can you sprinkle some my way!

Me-44 (45)
H- 50 (51)
M-'96

S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)

BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas)
home Oct(sep rooms)
(EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed)
insists wants D through July 2015
no more talk of D since