Winhamm, you prob won't be able to stop it from happening or having it already happen. However, giving the no open marriage boundary is also about you and taking back some respect. It's empowering. Whether that brings her back over time is unknown. Some say it's the first step for their road back.

Regardless, it's about you being matter of fact and no longer letting her feel your silence is you being ignorant or ok with her actions.

Say it loud and then stfu and let your actions handle the rest. Good luck!


M-33
W-33
S-11, S-8
M-11, T-14
BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18
I moved out 5/23