I agree she needs the space. I'm at the point that I feel the same way for me.
Ok, sometimes it takes a while for what you wrote to digest.
I read this again today and I think it truly is time I need some space from the sitch, its been 9 months constantly on my mind, I need a little bit of a breather. I'm going to go dark from this thread for a couple days. As S6 calls it, I think my clarity of the whole sitch got a 'level-up' over the last couple weeks. This is a good thing, I think. I'll check back in a few days. Thanks everyone on here for all of the help. I'm sure I'll be back on soon.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)