I kept saying STBX wasn't an abuser bc he never tried to isolate me...but that was bc he never told ME who I couldn't talk to, he was working the other angles, this just creeps me out. We'd spent the day in a boat with these friends and he texted my friend this a day later.
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on
