new here.... burned out.

[YBT]

I did tell him at one point when we were discussing us that our relationship is going to effect how our kids have relationships and is this what he wants for our daughters? It didn't have the effect I wanted. He said, "oh great. More pressure. "

So my question... Do I initiate physical stuff or act like a roommate? I asked him what he wants and he said he doesn't know.

Do I try to initiate talks about us or do I wait for him? If I wait he may never talk and continue to evade and ignore.